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20 Year old SS lives here with me and his mom (been married for two years). SS does not work, does not have his GED but is going through (court ordered) "counseling" courses in the community we live in. He informs us that they told him to not get a job that they will assist him in the process.

He has a GF and she is over here twice a month on the weekends. I have a problem with our 5 year old son seeing them together in this house. SS BM does nothing about it, says nothing even though. I don't dare say anything because she will then throw something I did or said in the past.

I just don't know what to do or say about this.

msp1967's picture

Thanks for the message Steperg. My wife finally had enough and kicked him out two weeks ago. Our relationship (wife and I) is growing again with that part gone.

SS still has his stuff in the basement, but I have it all stacked neatly in one corner for him to pick up at his convience.