I’m just so sick and tired of my partner and his 3 rude selfish adult kids! He has 2 girls and 1 boy, boy is 29 married with 3 kids alcoholic and that smokes weed all day long! The AS will not allow my husband or his grandmother to see his children, it’s been 3 years now! But for the last year or so AS and my husband talk on FB all the time and tell each other I love you! What really? I love you but you can’t see me or my kids this is ridiculous! Girls are 28 and 21, 28 year old married into money and now thinks she is better then everyone else and wants everyone to wait on her hand and foot! She has her grandmother doing all her house work and errands because she can’t get it done herself while looking after her 2 year old but can’t pick something up at the store for her grandmother if she goes to town always says she doesn’t have time! She will call my husband daily expecting him to do things for her even though we live 2 hours away. She gets her nose up in the air if he doesn’t make a trip up every weekend to visit his granddaughter and won’t speak to him. Many times when we do go up she’s got no time for him always out somewhere with friends. If she finds out we have plans on a Friday evening or something she will purposely ask him to do something for her in order to try and ruin our plans! Instead of saying no we have plans he will lie and say he got called in to work so he can’t do the errand for her.  Then there’s the worst one the 21 year old she is a recovering addict (2 years good for her) but she is the most ignorant person I have ever met! She will say rude things to me in front of her father and he says nothing to her. She has been so terrible I no longer go to any family events that she will be at! Just last week she told my 75 year old MIL to    Go fuck herself and again dear old dad says nothing! If one of my boys ever spoke to my mom the way she does they would definitely be hearing from me. This girl acts like my husbands wife and he loves it! He lies to her and tells her our relationship is miserable and he is always seeking sympathy from her! It disgusts me really. She will ask what we are having for supper and he will say oh just leftovers and I had to cook myself. It makes me furious because that particular night we were having a lovely supper. 

I ask him why he does this and he says it’s to keep the peace! Why do u have to pretend your miserable to keep the peace. 

My son was home from the army for Xmas and at 9:40 pm tonight he went down stairs to get his laundry ready as he leaves in the morning and yes I will admit he was a little loud when he went down but my husband had the nerve to say to me he needs to get some respect! I had to leave the room because I was so angry seriously why don’t you tell your 3 hateful assholes to get some respect and let me deal with mine! 

Im so done of dealing with his kids mine will be gone in the morning but his are never going to stop the drama cause he allows it! 

I feel like maybe it’s time to move on