I need help! I have three step children and two I get along just fine with. But the 22 year old boy...and I do mean boy/child! Is rude disrespectful and has even made up lies about me, written awful things on my car and I believe has stolen things from me. My husband doesn't understand my frustration and hurt feelings over any of it. He and his family act like that kid can do no wrong. Its gotten worse now that he married a personality just like his!! They just had a baby too!!! UGH!
Here is the most current issue: I do not want him in my house at all. Period. I don't trust him or his wife. (his new wife has also created some pretty damaging lies about me).
I have asked my husband to respect my position but I don't think he has any loyalty toward me when it comes to that boy.
He wants to be in his sons like for his new grandbaby (which is totally understandable) but I have told him I don't trust and don't want him in our home until there is an apology from them both. (which of course I wont ever get)
Unfortunately, everyone tip toes around him and has let him grow up being disrespectful toward others so its like they all just stick their heads in the sand and act as if his behavior is justified because he has a heart problem and watched a terrible divorce between his parents. His bad AND I MEAN TERRIBLE behavior is unacceptable to me. He started off liking me until we got married then ALL H*** broke loose! That's when it all changed!
I don't know what to do and I know I do not have any support from his father or any of my in laws! (the 2 girls stay out of it as much as they can)