And I was right about DH's eldest daughter
I figured over Christmas when DH's eldest seemed to actually be civil and somewhat respectful to me that it was just an act. Probably because YSD was around and I'm obviously closer to her, or maybe because of the fiasco between DH's eldest and her horrific relationship with BM's SO
Well, I was right
Just an act
Today we were at a get together for SGS's birthday party. DH and I were the only 'family' to attend other than SSIL's mother. Their friends were there (all SSIL's I believe) but BM wasn't there, nor FIL or DH's sister. DH's daughter didn't say hello to me. When a picture was being taken of DH and I and little SGS was right there so I suggested him joining us, DH's daughter made sure to tell SGS to go have his picture taken with Grandpa...no mention of Grandma Disillusioned although I was right beside DH. And the best was when we were leaving and DH calls his daughter over to say good-bye. She says good-bye to DH and chats for a bit. Not once looking in my direction (I was right beside DH) nor one word of good-bye to me
Well, works two ways. I also said not one word to her
The nice thing is when SGS gave DH a hug good-bye he said 'and Grandma Disillusioned' and gave me a hug too. Such a little sweetheart this child is!
SSIL is also great. As it was his birthday too he opened his gift from DH and I have gave me a great big hug and thank you, and shook DH's hand.
Before this SSIL had been over chatting with DH and I and DH's daughter ripped into him a little, calling him over to where she was. SSIL ripped into her right back, explaining that he had been talking to us.
Glad SSIL is a nice guy, and probably one of the reason SGS is such a sweetheart with me too. Makes up for some of DH's daughter's nastiness.