Why did I take time off for skids for Spring Break?
Please tell me why I fought to have Spring Break (next week) off to travel 10 hours in a car with my wonderful wife, and two skids? I must be completely insane. It is bad enough that they are here this weekend and have taken over the house - AGAIN! Not that they ever step foot outside or do anything besides play xbox and with my wife's iphone. God forbid they would want to do anything productive or constructive.... There was a time when I wanted custody with my wife, but no more - every other weekend is fine. My role is occasional playmate, role model for good husband, and the bank - and that is pretty much it.
One more issue for the group - when the skids visit, boys age 8 and 4, they sleep in the same bed as my wife. They have bunkbeds, but choose to sleep in the same bed. It should be known that when they are with their Father (BF), they also sleep with him, despite the fact that they have their own bedrooms and beds there as well. Is it just me or is this weird? I never slept with my parents growing up.
One more issue - Spring Break is next week, and we are renting a beach house and my wife's family is coming down. I am pretty much convinced that my wife will sleep with the boys all Spring Break. This is upsetting and embarrassing to me. Am I wrong? What do I do or say when her family asks me why my wife sleeps with them instead of me.
Any input would be appreciated.