I know many people on here are dreading the skids coming for spring break, but my dread is kind of the opposite. My 2 kids are going to my ex's for the week. I hate them going over there for the EOW that they have to do, they always come back messed up (bed wetting, temper fits, not sleeping, attitude problems). I only agreed to let him have them for spring break because he was supposed to take them to AZ to visit some of his family (who are genuinely nice people). Now, they are not going. That means that they will be at his house, where they don't even have their own beds (my DD4, DS6 and my EX share a queen bed), I have HUGE issues with this btw, for 8 days! It just breaks my heart that there is nothing I can do to stop it! Sometimes I am do jealous of my SO, his ex wife has disappeared and we don't have to have the back and forth drama. My ex is the most manipulative, conniving, passive aggressive person you will ever meet.... Too bad you can't un-choose who you have children with!