An update on my disfunctionality (if you've read it before)
Alas, summer is over, and being a teacher, I'm back here during my lunch- etc.
I spent the entire summer with my infant, and I loved every second of it. She's a spoiled little Daddy's girl and I hope she stays that way until she's 50. My wife took her daughter to daycare over the summer because she still pays for it over the summer. I'm not afraid to admit that I also didn't want to be responsible for her and the infant during the day.
As I mentioned before, SD's biological father did get supervised visitation, that moved to being unsupervised visitation, that moved to more unsupervised visitation. He started paying child support, etc. I actually respect how the guy cleaned himself up so that he could see his daughter.
My wife, on the other hand, oh god. Every single day of my life is a constantly stressed out woman who's irritable to any kind of discourse, ESPECIALLY if it concerns her daughter. This hypersensitivity leads to fights almost daily. If we're not fighting, she's ranting on about "What if I just don't take her to see her Dad", "He's going to mess up", "I can't wait for him to get drunk", "His family is influencing her". I can't stand the crap. She'll be on her phone for hours in bed staring at his facebook page waiting to him upload photos of himself and his daughter. It's insane.
I came out yesterday and told her that if her ex is on her mind more than her husband, then this relationship isn't going to work out. She spends more time focusing on her previous child and her ex than she does with her infant. It's night and day. She's openly told me during fights to "take your daughter and move back to your state". I think the next time I will. Does anyone have experience with this kind of obsession?