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unappreciated or did I get in my feelings??

promise2hrt's picture

Hello you guys let me know what you think.
I made spaghetti, pretty basic prego sauce ground beef angel hair pasta. Sometimes I mix them together or I leave it separate, you know sauce and pasta. Here goes my SD asking 101 questions what sauce is this what kind of noodles so on and so forth, ( getting on my nerves) I already felt what was coming she didn't like it, or it was different. Talked to my Hunny about getting her to eat and he said really so when he fixed his plate he's like I see why she don't like it, ( the sauce and pasta were separated, he then said paw paw his father makes it different I said oh what's different, isn't all the same except different pastas and sauce.? All I here is and is thinking is either you do the cooking and grocery shopping or she eats what I cook. I'm getting tired of hearing papa's name. He don't live with us and will not be cooking for us. These kids and my Hunny is very spoiled by gramps, so it kind of makes me feel like what I think and say is ignored. Another example the youngest child early one morning cones and gets in bed to watch TV with a bag of candy I notice and asked have you ate BK? No. Have you brushed your teeth? No. I then say don't you think you need to go do these things before candy and Hunny looks over like let her have it so..... again unappreciated or in my feelings?

Shaman29's picture

You didn't mention the age of your skid or skids. I'm not sure if you have more than one.

This is typical of skids, questioning the food.

It sounds like you have an nosy/interfering FIL to be. Not only that, he sounds like a Disney Grandpa.

When I read your post, my first question was.....why is your skid climbing into bed with you?? Your bedroom should be off limits to all children. I would make this a rule as soon as possible. These are not your kids and you have no idea of the amount of problems that can crop up from kids/skids laying claims to the adult bedroom.

And at this point, it sounds like you BF/fiance/"hunny" is a Disney Dad and a Disney Kid. Which can complicate your relationship because guess who he is going to run to every time you two fight or disagree. Guess who is going to undermine your place in your home.

It sounds like your BF doesn't discipline his children or set down any rules. You can't do anything about that except disengage. If your BF wants to pay for dental work because he's not paying attention to his kids, then so be it.

Remember, these are not your kids and you're not responsible for raising them.