So angry at DH and need to know if i'm being irrational...
As many know, I'm almost 36 weeks pregnant. I'm still working full-time. My husband works full-time as well. We both try to split housework evenly but I do pretty much all of the cooking as he doesn't cook much. Even with my being exhausted and sick (still dealing with morning sickness) I try to cook at least 3-4 healthy, wholesome meals a week. The other couple nights might be kraft dinner, grilled cheese, you know, simple things.
Yesterday I did a bunch of freezer meal prep for when baby arrives, and I think I must have overdid it because when I went to go to sleep last night, I felt so sick and overall not well. This morning, I let my boss know i'd work a half-day (i work from home) because I was feeling miserable. He was fine with it as I haven't taken a sick day my whole pregnancy so no big deal.
I worked that half-day from bed and haven't left my bed since. When I get up, I feel like i'm going to be ill. My husband has brought me drinks and a couple snacks throughout the day, but as dinner was getting closer, I was hoping he would offer to make something as I still haven't felt well enough to get out of bed. He didn't offer anything.
Eventually I could hear him downstairs cooking and felt hopeful - of course it would surely be soup or macaroni or something but who cares, it's food, and at this point, I was super hungry despite being so nauseous. HE DIDN'T BRING ME ANYTHING. I went down an hour later and him/SD are still eating. I grabbed my car key and drove to the closest drive through.
When I got home, I told him I wanted to talk. I asked him why he hadn't thought to make his pregnant wife who is not well at all, who slaves in the kitchen every night regardless of how unwell I feel, dinner. He said "I thought you were sick".... SO I DON'T NEED TO EAT? BABY DOESN'T NEED ANYTHING? I'm so angry and he doesn't understand why.
I feel so unimportant... Like who cares that she cooks and cleans and never stops working hard to take care of us?! We'll just eat dinner while she starves! It's hurtful and he doesn't see why. I don't know if i'm being irrational due to the hormones but I can't stop crying and he's just ignoring it saying he didn't think i'd want anything.