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livelaughlove's picture

So its about 6 o'clock and I'm on my way to an interview I text my boyfriend and say I'll cook dinner when I come back if its not too late...ok so he knows HIS kids go to bed at 8 because they have school in the morning well I didn't get out of this interview until labout 9 so I'm driving home thinking hey maybe he was smart and cooked dinner for them n we can sit and relax with eachother...NOPE I was wrong I get home the kids are all hyper haven't eaten and aren't ready for bed and my boyfriend leaves for work at 10....should I be pissed that he didn't have the brains to make them something then put them to bed for 8? Was it really that hard? These kids aren't even mine and I'm more of a parent to them then him or their mother who doesn't show her face.... I can't stand that he can't cook it makes me so angry...I asked him to help me make dinner the other night n we got in a fight because he wouldn't help me refused to!

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briarmommy's picture

You should be upset, he needs to step up and take care of his children. I have the same situation. I usually always make all the meals but this sunday I was throwing a baby shower for my sister so I was busy all morning and told him I wouldn't be making breakfast, I got the baby a cup of formula and put some cereal on the tray but it was up to him to feed his son. Lo and Behold when I left at 11 that boy had still not been fed. He took him to taco bell for lunch at like 1 but didn't feed him breakfast.

doll faced sm's picture

Of course you have every right to be upset. If it makes you feel any better, I don't think mine even knows where the kitchen is. He actually got up from the couch in the family room, walked *through* the kitchen, through the dining room, into the living room . . . to ask me if I could make him a glass of chocolate milk! :?

livelaughlove's picture

Hahaha I don't get it why are men to incapable of helping around the house!! Now I'll cook something and he won't like it I'll ask him what he likes and he says everything..uuuhhh really cuz if u liked anything u would eat what I make I'm getting sick of cooking for me and his kids he should be cooking! If I wasn't here they would eat mc donalds everyday and chinese food! Its disgusting! Also if I wasn't here there homework would never be done he neveeerrrr aks if they have homework I always do and I always help them! I feel like I just got two kids thrown at me that I have to take care of now! And not to mention one on the way!

livelaughlove's picture

See I would do that but I hate to see them eat like shit it makes me so angry