Should I be mad at all!!!
This as you know is Mother's Day and I was hoping to spend it with bs8, well now it seems that I am also spending it with ss5. The problem lies in that ss5 BM is of the mindset that she should still be included in all FDH family functions and always is. Every holiday and even non holiday events, if all the family is there so is she. She acts like it's soooo important that ss5 has both his parents around at the same time at the holidays so they still seem like a family to him and so she doesn't have to miss out. Well if the holidays are so important then why is she pawning her son off on us the one day of the year that should be about her, That she should legitimately want to spend with her kid. Maybe I wouldn't be so upset about this but this topic has been a major fighting point for FDH and myself, I don't think she needs to be there and he agrees but is powerless to stop his family from inviting her to everything.