sd 13 BM and DH need to get their heads out of their butts
SD13 hasn't been to school all week (they even had it Monday to make up for a snow day.)
She was out all last week too due to being sick!
She has headache, nausea, dizzy, and stomach ache. BM took her to doctor he said he couldn't find anything maybe its a bug or something. Rest liquid blah blah.
Sd came over this weekend totaly fine never once complained about being sick.
Monday it hits again.
But can you believe she can bare to play xbox all day. I have checked a few times and she is logged in playing some stupid fornite game everyday almost all day. I am sorry if I have a headache last thing I want to do is stare at a screen all day.
DH was a little mad when I said she is just faking to stay home and BM is stupid for letting her stay home for 2 weeks in a row. DH received a call today from the school about it.
If SD is actually sick enough to stay home two weeks in a row we better call a specialist. Yes she is having problems with bully at school, but she is a bully also. DH has had to have the talk many times, don't be mean, don't bully, be nice. But still SD is the mean girl, even brags about being the biggest girl in her class and beating up on them.
I love this child but she sure does play both of them.
A specialist is definitely
A specialist is definitely needed! SD12 even admitted to us that she's learned that faking sick will get her out of things she doesn't want to do. She hasn't been "sick" in awhile and definitely ruined her chances at our sympathy unless she's puking bile.
Your SD obviously wasn't disciplined correctly as a child if she is a bully and BRAGS about it! Sounds like she needs a good beating herself.
Is it mean I hoped one day
Is it mean I hoped one day some one knocks her down a few notches. She failed two times so she is older then all the kids in her class.
DH even this weekend said he doesn't want to be mean to her when she is over since we see her so little. Its not being mean its setting rules and I will he can get over it.
He just doesn't want her to hate him and stop coming over like the other one. I am so tired of her being so awful to everyone. Just like for her birthday she only could talk one little girl into coming over cause she is so mean.
My son plays that stupid
My son plays that stupid Fortnite game also! However, when my son (11) is sick he will not even turn the xbox on. That is how I know he is really sick. He will go to his room and lay down and sleep. Being out of school for 2 weeks but can play xbox?!?! Hell to the NO!!!! Is this faking sick stuff a girl thing? My SD ALWAYS has something wrong but even the crazy BM we deal with wouldn't let her stay home for 2 weeks like that. I'm glad the school sent them a letter! That is ridiculous!
On the bullying note my SD has been complaining about bullies at her school for years but one day was bragging to me about how this kid was "bullying" her and her friends so she made fun of his shoes and then when he said he was going to kick her in the shin she proceeded to push him down so hard he hit his head (she is big for her age) and that she didn't get in trouble b/c it was self defense. I have seen her on many occasions instigate my son and then cry when he would defend himself (never physical in my home just verbal). So my SO and BM both think that poor little SD is being bullied but I think she is instigating things and then when kids defend themselves she tattles on them and plays victim. SO has said, "she's to scared to defend herself" - BS!!!! She admitted she pushed a kid down so hard he hit his head hard! She isn't afraid...she is manipulative! I don't trust her!
I played that game a bit.
I played that game a bit. It's fun but I suck at pvp so sitting in a shed and hoping no one finds me is a bit boring.
LMAO!!!! that would be the
LMAO!!!! that would be the only peace and quite i get haha!
I'm not a gamer so I don't
I'm not a gamer so I don't understand how my son likes any of these games. I actually know what you are talking about though b/c I watch him play it enough
When you are sick, I'm a true
When you are sick, I'm a true nurse lol, No electronics, you are confined to your room and bed, you can only get up when you need the bathroom,
nothing else, sorry but to get well you need rest and quiet. Funny how this cures an illness within hours, but I'm sorry, you where to sick to go to school, just to make sure you are not sick tomorrow you can stay in your room till then.
Oh I do treat your with the best food of course and snacks, you can just snap your little fingers and I will bring it, as long as you remain in bed.
Food = chicken broth
snack = strong tea and toast..
What you thought you will be getting Pizza and soda, oh no, you are sick my dear child.....
Yes my kid pulled the fake sick as well, all kids does it lol, it depends on how you as parent handles it, I never told him you are faking, I was really concerned and smothered him in care..... Deigma only played sick twice in his life, and then decided way better at school then at home, at least going to school he has friends and not being alone and isolated at home.... and his over bearing helicopter mum who collected his homework from school and he still had to do it.
HAHA I think I would rather
HAHA I think I would rather go to school too! LOL but when your sick really dont give a poo about doing anything.
She is at school today lol
Does the girl have anxiety?
Does the girl have anxiety? Sounds like school avoidance to me, especially since you mention the bully, who I'm sure causes her some worry, notwithstanding that she's a bully herself. If she's a couple grades behind, I'm guessing she doesn't do well and school is not a happy place for her. Perhaps her specialist should be a mental health professional.