So I have heard a lot on here that as SK get older, they start to refuse to visit "the house with the rules." I have heard a few different things... there is technically never an *actual* age that kids can choose custody, right?
So how does that happen? The Bio gives in and if SK says they don't want to go, then they just don't make them? Do they sometimes file for modification if the SK is refusing to visit? I know judges sometimes take into considersation the child's feelings... but do they ever have the final say?
I have MANY friends that are not in blended families, that just assume "oh, the child gets to pick, right?"
BM does not support SD10 relationship with me or her dad at all (shocker, I know). The other day she even threatened again "I'm leaving the state and I'm taking her with me!" I just feel like if SD ever gave her the SLIGHTEST inclination to not visit on our week, she would 100% support her not coming over.