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OMG did bm really say this?? I'm so shocked!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 3:06pm

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The day we got back from vac. ss11 threw a fit to go home, Why? B/c he knew the fun was over and the spending was over. So dh handled it very well IMO. He told ss11 that he is not leaving and that this is his time with his dad and that he doesn't get to see him much. As the convo went on ss11 was being very nasty about it so dh finally told him that just b/c vac is over and the fun stuff stopped is no reason to go back to his moms that it was wrong to treat him as second and that he was nothing more then to spend his money on him.

Then dh called bm to see if she was encouraging him to come home. As it turned out bm did not want any of them back as she was enjoying her time. I was shocked to say the least, normally she would jump all over it and make a huge stink about them coming home. This time she didn't even call them not once, she texted them but not called.

Ok so that was settled and ss11 stayed. Fast forward to today, this is the boys last day here, bm told dh that she was talking to her aunt they both agreed that since dh doesn't get to see them as much tht they will be here for all the time is his allowed and she will not be taking anyway or try to anyway. AGAIN I'm shocked! :jawdrop:

Where has bm gone??? OMG where in the world did she go??? :? :? :?

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 3:20pm

I never thought of that, I bet you are right. the other day she texted dh asking him if he told the boys they were staying the whole time. Which she had stayed by the Co she would not have thought of that. But anyway dh said yes and y as it should just be expected. she texted back saying she doesn't have to tell him what she does with her time. :? :?

So dh texted her back asked if she wanted to start a fight as what she texted was very confrontational and no he doesn't care and never asked! she went back into raving about how she will not tell him what she does on her time. again huh?? dh didn't even respond.

I bet she does have a BF! :sick:

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 3:31pm

DH’s ex was notorious for acting like DH was the BEST father in the world and gave him all the extra time in the world, when she was out spreading her joy to the masses. BUT the second that she hooked one, then DH automatically became a piece of crap father and she would not let him have SS much at all. She wanted the new boytoy to be daddy. It was a sick cycle for several years.