I'm so tired if the sd8 daddy shit. I'm trying to disengage but sick of eating the crap doh subjects us to. My bs6 went to his dads I cooked a lively roast. When ds6 here she will eat anything in a firm of competition, when not she whines like a baby. Every meal she demands attention about how good she's been eating xyz. Asked dh not to buy into it ..,.., !! Tonight she ate all her meal then asked for more when daddy tells her smurf cooked ... I don't really like roasts!!! Wtf, I said to dh u see this is why I've stopped cooking!!! Again I'm being sensitive etc etc . So fecking over it!
Also ss15 geeky fecker from hell, cleaning house for inspection (trying to sell) out of blue asks if he can help, I say ok you can clean the bathroom, he laughs walks off and says yeah right I will ask dad (who is outside mowing) if he can help him instead. I said why ask then???I ask dh later and ss16 never even asked just stood there. Counsellor says I'm taking too much to heart and need to let more stuff bounce off me but these kids don't appreciate anything and are fecking rude , lazy and attention seeking. So over it , ss16 then sat in his bedroom , he's been on the Internet a total of 10 hrs today and dh doesn't give a flying fuck ... So why should I!!!! I've tried talking to him about his lack of parenting but he thinks I'm the problem.