I just need help on the subject. It’s not that I’m jealous, I just feel like there is a balance between dad and daughter and wife/gf whatever you are.
So here’s my story.
I’ve been with my bf for a year now and the first time I met the MW was during Christmas last year. She’s 8 years old and has to be held at all time by the dad. It’s like her legs don’t work. She in constant need of his attention and if we are trying to ah e alone time together she pushes herself in between us. We can’t even sit together at restaurants. Right now as I write this she has come downstairs and started cuddling with him on the couch. It just infuriates me to no end. I understand it’s his daughter but the whole situational the matter is just unnerving. He use to work with her mom and him and his first wife use to watch her when she was a baby cause the mom was a single mother. Well the mother moved back home and after he got his divorce he moved the MW and the mother to where he was. He then adopted the MW and then after that married the mother. The marriage only lasted a few months and they got a divorce. Fast forward a year and he met me. Now I feel like I have to fight for him whether she’s here or not. She doesn’t live here. Even when he FaceTimes her he locks himself in a room and talks to her for hours. He does have a biological son and he even gets pushed to the side which makes me mad cause he’s autistic and doesn’t understand why he doesn’t get dads attention.