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Submitted by Totheend12345 on Tue, 02/27/2018 - 9:21am

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Well last weekend was the 1st weekend of court order visitation with sd9.

BM is in Florida, this is why she missed court not due to her panic ambulance excuse. SD is with her grandparents. They refused to meet us, said they are not under court order, to get with BM.

Of course DH shows at the court ordered meeting location at correct time with court order in hand. BM no show since she is 600 miles away. We make a police report, we knew there was nothing they could do but make note of it. BM said she needs to get away and work on her self that her parents have SD, we will have to deal with them if we want to see her.

So now DH is at a lost on what to do, since the grand parents honestly have no obligation to follow court order since they will have no repercussions. I see it as BM has given SD to her parents so she doesn't have to deal.

SD has now started throwing fits at school like she does with us. Refuses to breath, scream, cry, threaten to call cops for holding her against her will. She does this anytime she does not get her way. BM has created a monster.

The grandparents have blocked all communication with us, and right now we are tapped out on lawyer fees can't afford to take them to court. A total loss on what to do.

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Submitted by nengooseus on Tue, 02/27/2018 - 10:05am

If the grandparents are not under court order, they are kidnapping or interfering with the custody of the child. They do not have rights to the child. Children are not property that can be given away--or even loaned to others.

Call the police or collect the child from school. (Not that I would want to, from the sounds of it.)

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Submitted by hereiam on Tue, 02/27/2018 - 10:11am

This^^^

BM is under court order to make the child available for visitation, so she needs to tell the grandparents to give the girl up to your DH for his visitation.

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Submitted by notsobad on Tue, 02/27/2018 - 10:13am

Go get the child from the Grandparents!
He’s the parent, he’s the one with the rights.

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Submitted by CompletelyPuzzled on Tue, 02/27/2018 - 11:48am

Why not just take the CO to the closest police station to the grandparent's house? The cops should be able to escort you over to the grandparent's house and make them hand over the kid. We have had to get the cops involved several times when BM or her crazy mom decides not to hand over SD12 after visits. They always force her to do so.

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Submitted by WalkOnBy on Tue, 02/27/2018 - 11:58am

Go pick up the kid from school. Then google how to file a motion for a change in temporary custody and file it