Got a visit from a rookie cop tonight
Per the court order we picked the girls up on Friday at 6:30pm.. We get them until Wednesday due to a 7 day clause before school starts. (They have to be back 7 days prior to school starting) BM seems to think they should be going home today thus she called the cops.
A rookie young cop came to the house and I immediately met him at the road with paperwork in hand. He wasn't here to enforce the paperwork he said but was here to see the girls. A welfare check. I told him flat out no, told him it was harassment because there is no concern over the girls and didn't he think that would be traumatic for a kid considering we went through the cop crap a couple of weeks ago with them in the gas station parking lot. (BM LOVES drama)
I offered the police report. He didn't seem to know wtf he was doing or talking about. He skimmed through the court order then asked if since school was about to start if we would return the kids tonight. Uh hell no. This is my husbands time and no one has the right to take that away from him because BM is pitching a fit because things aren't going her way. DH told him he didn't like his attitude, it was a civil matter and he wasn't seeing the kids. He told him if (my cousin who is a cop) was working he would talk to him but otherwise nope. Two other cops pulled up, one got out and talked to him then they all drove off without another word.
I'm sure we will hear her screaming and throwing a major fit when we drop off the kids on Wednesday. It's gotten so bad the gas station employees crowd around the window to watch at pick up and drop offs because she is THAT psycho and dramatic.
On another note we've had SD7 in pull ups at night time because she pees in the bed. Surprisingly she hasn't peed once since having to wear them this time so that's a plus. SD4 got put in one last night for pooping on herself then sitting in it and not telling anyone. I had my DD9 keep coming up to me saying DS4 stunk real bad. He was bragging about farting so I chalked it up to that. I went in the room to put something away and smelled the distinct smell of crap. I looked and sure enough.. She pooped herself. She got put in a pullup for the night. Today at bath time she looked at me and told me "My Momma doesn't make me wear diapers". I told her I'm not her momma and if she craps herself like a damn baby in this house she will wear a diaper like one.
I'm sure we will get major complaints about them wearing pullups because how dare we. I'm tired of cleaning up bodily fluids that aren't mine or my own kids.