I know to some this is going to sound soo irrational and unfair but I am SO angry right now. 3 weekends, 3 bloody weekends of having his 2 kids over (SD2 &SD6) aswell as 1 day in the week. Finally me and DH over cam,e that invisible yet heavy black cloud over us and had a great 3 days together, i was literally walking on sunshine, both of us havent been that happy for ages. Then friday evening comes, skids arrive, I could hear them before they even got in the door, moaning and whining, youngest one was tired and so it was that moaning and attitude. Both had to be reminded to say hi to me AGAIN. then SD2 nearly 3, just sat on the sofa with a face on all evening until she was ready to play and terrorise my kitten. So Sat I went out with my friend for a change and left him to it, obviously that was wrong as he wouldnt answer his phone when i was calling, told me to get his dinner on way back but I got the wrong one and so he was just so moody and barriers up with me, i felt like id just slapped his mum the way he was acting with me. We obv couldnt discuss any thing as they follw him around and he goes and sits with them on the soaf, no room for me though! and then to top it of sun morning we were just waking uo and about to get into it, then skids wake up and instead of puttin tv on for a bit and coming bk to bed, he just stays up with them, i get up, he ignores me, kids ignore me then i go out to get milk for them all come bk and its like whats your problem.Morning carries on until mid day, wasting our day together, with the kids running screaming and making uo noise and mess all whilst Im cleaning uo as he refuses to clean as he 'ttideid up all week'. meaning he washed up for 3 days that he was off work.running around with their new boots on that I got them, on the sofa, in MY room and just to add to it chasing my kitten, so much so she was so scred then grabbing her, I so wanted her to scratch the little shits eye out. Telling her off doesnt work, she compltly ignored me, i wanted to slap her head so bad!
I am just fuming, whether its just the build up of 3 weeks with them, i dont know but they are back tomorrow and I feel like just walking out. and all of this, DH thinks that I am blowing out of porpotion and theres nothing wrong. Hiding behinmd your kids coz you dont want to deal with your wife, i think there is! I actually thought it was going great and silly me, forgot about skids, what a bump back to earth!