This weekend was descent. I put up with the MIL tagging and her sarcastic bs, along with sd11 and her friend that's 11 too. We went to a festival and to lunch. This am that little girl went home and my son came over. He had been at his dads. My husband, sd 11, my son , and I went looking at vacation places. We bought some shirts at the beach and checked on places to stay for sd11 spring break coming up. We are planning on a trip of some sort because h needs a vacation. The places were all booked for spring break. We are still going to do something with her that week. Anyway we come home and after dinner h gets a call from his good friend. Our grown up couple friends are planning on a trip to the Bahamas in 6 months. It will be only us and two other couples that are h closest friends and I get along with their wifes. He pauses on the phone with his friend to tell me and I say YES! Sd11 asks if she can come and he said no it's just for couples. It's a couples retreat. Oh boy, she gets pissed and slams her butt on the couch with hands crossed and silently looks at ground. Bahahahah !!! I fucking love it. H gets on his knees and and puts his hands on her knees and ask Her whats wrong and is she ok. I have to speak up and say really. She just says that when we went on our honeymoon two years ago she cried. It was because we left her. This shit is getting to be to much. I feel like I'm married to a third person. I feel like she wishes she was the one married to him mentally. I am happy at the fact he tells her to grow up but I can't help to wonder how long this is going to last for. At what age or what is it gonna take for her to let him and I be a two and not a three? DH says to me Infront of her that we can afford to do something like this because now we are not gonna have the baby. This past year I had two miscarriages. I recently turned 40 so we decided to stop trying for a baby. I just wanted to forget about the pregnancies and losses in my life because it hurt so bad. He says that bs. Hurt my feelings bad.