DH didn't made SD14 come for visitation
Dh let SD stay with her mom. He doesn't want her to resent him. I agree with y'all that he should have just gone to get her and told her she has to, but I'm not going to argue with him about it. He knows how I feel.
He asked how I feel about what SD did. I told him that I feel extremely betrayed, like she threw us under the bus and is telling bm all these things that are either twisted truths or just straight up lies.
But after this skid free weekend... I am thinking with a clearer head. I am sure SD is going to want to come back maybe not next time, but probably within February or March. But if nit im pretty sure dh is going to force her back. But while shes gone I'm going to enjoy the peace. It was so nice to enjoy the quiet on a weekend that normally would have been chaotic.