DH is in Denial about SS mental problems
SS is in 8th grade and been seeing a Psychiatrist and a social worker since first grade for a number of mood problems. DH is in complete denial and thinks SS is just "spoiled" from BM the reason SS acts the way he does. I agree SS is A TOTAL spoiled brat but find it hard to believe BM was able to manipulate every Psychiatrist/Social worker SS had into believing SS had a mental condition. This is what DH believes. DH has told SS he does NOT believe anything is wrong with him and that BM is making it all up.
SS Recently got into a Argument with my son home from college. When DH stepped in to stop it SS went up stairs and got his baseball bat and came down stairs and hit DH on the back screaming. DH had a black and blue for weeks. DH Swept this under the rug. This is NOT the first time SS has hit DH. At SS therapy appointments DH NEVER mentions any problems we are having with SS in our home. Since BM complains all the time about SS DH said he does not want to "Fuel the fire" the reason he never tells the therapist.
Could DH be fully right that SS is just spoiled or do you think he's in denial? If DH keeps Believing this how will this Affect SS long term?