SD fine until BM calls then cries
Hopefully I am posting this in the correct place.
We have been on vacation for 6 days, everything is fine having a good time. BM calls (on SD iPad) and suddenly comes the tears. Suddenly but expected as this has been the issue for the past 6 years. I truly believe it's how she is being raised but when I give my opinion I feel like an outsider. To me, it all starts back when she had a pacifier. It was constantly in her mouth. I only let her have it at night when she turned 3, however we only have her every other weekend. She was fine only having it at night, at 4 years old she did not have it at all at our house. However as soon as she got in her BM vehicle she knew right where it was and boom back to 24/7 with the binky! Her BF spoke to BM to tell her that she no longer has it but nothing changed. I think this leads into so many other issues going on, she is now 7. She cries if she is left alone, like sitting in living room and everyone else is in kitchen etc. if getting gas and she is sitting in the seat next to gas tank screams bloody murder.
Other issues that I have. The BM acts like we all get along great and is the best coparenting ever. But it's as long as it's her way. I have absolutely no issues with being friends however not unless things are at least fair. I cannot be fake but I'm cordial.