I'm not a confrontation kind of person. For me to go out on a limb and post something that could get me in a bad mix is uncharacteristic. Aw, Hell! Here goes:

Choco,
I see similarities in gramatical and punctuation errors between the anonymous poster and another poster. (i.e. commas rather than periods and run-on sentences) This person is obviously not very educated in the basics of fifth grade writing. I do hope that she's not helping your child with his Composition homework. j/k

I could be wrong (sometimes that happens, lol), but I do see similarities.

I'm still pretty new here and know nothing about the rest of this, but thought it may ease your mind a smidgen to know that someone else can see the glaring similarities.

NCP should have rights too! The only thing I feel I can say in response to you chocoholic is actual a very profound quote.......
He who has a thousand friends has not one to spare, He who has ONE enemy will meet him everywhere.....
Saadi
Sad but the truth, keep your chin up sweetie, you have a thousand friends here!!!!!

Haven't I?!?!? That too has been a fear of mine, that BM would find me on here, especially since we do "get along" it would really stir a pot that for the most part doesn't get stirred. That is not to say I don't get frustrated and mad at her... that is why I have come here in the past to vent rather than telling her exactly what is on my mind. It makes life easier for everyone. I will use caution in my postings though, she is an frequent internet surfer so I am sure if she wanted to find me, she would... although she spends most of her time on M*SPACE anyways... I would have more access to her intimate secrets than she would to mine... HOpe all was resolved here. I did notice the posting from the ADMIN- and read it- so, I guess we know how to avoid... Yep I'm Daddys Gurl... that's me... no other name attached... : ) Althought I think I may have signed my name in the past... OOOPPPS.

Daddys Gurl-

Life is as sweet as you sweeten it.

For me, I don't care. If either BM 'found' me here, I don't care. It's my true and utter thoughts, feelings, take, opinion, you name it. It would diffidently be an eye opener for either, that's for sure. But like Daddysgurl states, this is where I let my frustrations go... vent and let my hair down. I don't talk much about it any other place, so here's my outlet. If it just happens that one of my SK's BM happens to bump into me here, so be it. Hell, maybe one of them already 'found me'... hmmmm.... LMAO. But the bottom line is that I stand behind my thoughts and feelings. If I wasn't comfortable with something, or unsure, I say so, or don't say anything at all. I control what little or most information I want to talk about or post, no one else does. And technically, there are soooooo many people out there that it would be virtually impossible to totally suggest that one person is another person... in less they are a dumbass and use their email address, or such identifiable info online in their post, etc. Hell, I've come a crossed users where I wondered if that was my SS's BM, but of course, after reading, turns out diffidently isn't, because so many stories are sooo similar.... it's scary that way. It's bound to happen but I don't let that scare me, nor dictate me. If someone gets upset because you dared to have an opinion of them through your eyes, so be it.

StepMom

Man has the intelligence to change his life,
Sometimes, he just fails to use it...