First time posting so please forgive me if I posted in the wrong place. my 9 year old step son has bathroom issues that are driving me absolutely insane. Not only does he wet the bed every single night, he also waits until the last minute to go to the bathroom and often poops himself or at least leaves stains in his underwear. This happens every week sometimes multiple times a week. To make matters worse, the poop in his underwear and pee on the bed don't seem to bother him. He will poop and not change clothes or pee in the bed and lie about it and then sit on the wet pee covered blankets. When we ask if the smell and feeling it dirty underwear bothers him he says yes but still wont change clothes until we realize he's soiled himself. He literally tells me he poops himself because he'd rather play video games and watch tv then get up to go to the bathroom. we've tried everything. He washes the dirty underwear by hand and does his own laundry. He's been grounded for weeks with no tv or games and it seems as soon as he gets his things back he reverts back to the same behavior. Sorry for the long rant. It's hard to talk about these issues with people in our lives.