Annoying ex-in laws
BM's father always makes it a point to talk to DH. He's even invited him out to lunch or to come out on his boat. DH thinks he's an ok person, but he does not really want to interact with him anymore.
All that might be fine, except BM's father also likes to try to insert himself into DH's conflicts with BM. He always tries to get DH to 'see' BM's perspective. When DH wanted to change the custody schedule to give him more parenting time, he told DH that he (DH) wasn't thinking about the children. He wanted to attend the last mediation session as a "supportive party", but DH said no, he wasn't ok with that.
He's also called DH at work several times, just to chat. I've reminded DH that this man is not necessarily his friend, so he should be careful when he interacts with him.
So, today, BM's father sends DH a FB message that's a meme from the internet that says "when you say bad things about your ex, it's like sending a dagger through the heart of your child". Um, ok, DH rarely says anything about BM, in fact, he mostly ignores her. Also, why doesn't he send that to BM who tells SSs all the time that "your father caused the divorce" and "your father is only doing that because he hates me." Also, BM was verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive to DH throughout their marriage and her father never stepped in at that point to tell her it wasn't nice to treat the father of her children that way.
I've asked DH why he continues to be FB friends with this man. He says he's just doing it to be nice, but seriously, no need to take unsolicited advice or criticism from someone who really should have no connection to your life anymore. Certainly no need to take that kind of heat from someone who couldn't even raise his own daughter to treat people correctly or behave like an adult.
Anyone else have to deal with annoying ex in-laws?