Need help from BMs, what is she thinking?
My husband agreed to let SD14 go live with BM. She has been with us primarily for the past three years and nine months, after BM moved an hour away (without the court's permission, SD is a ward of the county). BM has always "claimed" she wants SD to live with her.
Husband told BM SD could move to start new school year, which began Thursday, Jan. 24. Guess what, she's still with us!? And BM had her Wednesday, Jan. 23. Why not keep her and enroll her and let her get started?
Husband and I are both baffled. We got a notice the county sheriff is looking for husband, we suspect to serve with court papers so BM can get CS. We have had SD for nearly 4 years with NO support. I suspect BM will not take SD without CS, which is why she is still here.
Does anyone know what could be going through BM's head right now? (If I was a BM who hadn't had her child in almost four years and husband said take her, I would be there within the hour and she would go home with me.)