The snub is there
DH on the phone with the daughter I went all out on for her marriage. Of course she is going to her new in laws home for a WHOLE WEEK for Thanksgiving. of course she has not spent a thanksgiving or Christmas with him in over 16 years. And she only comes to visit for a night or two. MAX. He never ever expresses his displeasure to her ever. They speak every few days but it clearly is for her needs not his.
He never sees the snubs.