First of all, this technically is none of my business, but it astonishes me that SS35 keeps saying how he's looking forward to having kids someday...and then co-purchases a house (with big mortgage) with his GF who is a hugh maintainance 42yr old gym bunny who tells anyone who will listen that she's never having kids. These two are established binge drinkers/ alcoholics, and I believe this is a factor in their poor communication.  I honestly dont think they could handle a child properly, because they get fall down drunk at least once a week, and have public screaming matches.  Ive been called more than once to come and drive them home, because they give my name to the cops who break up their altercations.  Just a shitshow in a small community.

Is it possible that SS simply doesnt realise that a woman's ability to procreate rapidly diminishes after 40?  Is she just pissing him about?  Even SS's brother and sister are perplexed and keep asking us if we'll "speak to SS about it".  I say hell no, none of our concern, and DH wouldnt even know how to start the conversation.  I hope she's on the Pill.