But I thought...
We were only supposed to have SD13 eow, christmas, and every other easter. No spring breaks. No fall breaks. And a week in summer. Dh and i agreed to it. Bm agreed to it. But that didn’t happen.
And when i ask dh why we took sd13 for fall break and why we will have her for spring break next year, his answer is that there was never a signed aggreement. And he wants more time with sd13 anyway, so he’s happy to take her for fall break.
Fast forward to this week. Dh is planning when his summer week with sd13 will be. And get this, he is offended and resentful of me for not wanting to babysit sd13 while he is at work.
”i just feel like that should be part of the deal. I make the money and you take care of the kids.”
SHE IS NOT MY CHILD!
If I were a babysitter professionally, I would be wearing nicer clothes and in general be paid better.