SS isn't even here yet and BM is already causing trouble
So we see SS for 6 weeks on a long distance schedule. It is broken into two three day weekends, two two week periods in the summer and alternating school holiday breaks. HCBM lives 4 hours away across state lines.
Well SS is coming today. DH is literally picking him up as we speak. BM is supposed to pick SS up on Monday at 3:30 p.m. BM called DH 20 minutes ago and said, "Due to the possibility of bad weather on Monday, I will be picking SS up 3 hours early from your house on Monday. DH said "No". BM said, "You don't understand, I have to work and SS has school on Tuesday and I'm just not comfortable driving in the bad weather." She then promised to give us the extra few hours during spring break.
DH offered to keep SS an extra day which made BM's head explode. She always goes for less time with DH instead of more and you better believe she plans these times to the minute to ensure that parenting time is 3 pm on pick up day to 3 pm on drop off day, not a minute more.
BM said "No", she will just be picking SS up early. DH told her that Monday is 3 days away and who knows what the weather will be this early in advance. DH told her "No, 3 pm is the court ordered time. If I feel that the weather is bad enough, I will call you Sunday night to notify you if I agree to change the time, otherwise, I will see you Monday at 3 pm".
We already see SS so little and there she goes trying to take more time away. God, it's always something with this woman...