Feelings about skids carry over to feelings about in-laws
My in-laws are okay. They dont live in the same state as us, so I dont have to see them very often. When I do see them, its fine.
I have my opinion about MIL due to her being a crackhead whore mother when DH was younger and how that has directly affected my DH as he is now.
Overall though, we all get along.
DH's siblings are younger then him, to where they are somewhat close in age to the skids.
Obviously my in-laws love the skids. They are family.
They also dont really know them. Or they dont see the side of the skids that I see.
When I see stuff that my inlaws post on FB about the skids- sharing a pic, both commenting on a post, etc I feel like I want to step away from the inlaws.
Ya know, when you dont like someone (the skids) you want to dissassociate yourself from everyone that deals with them.
Obviously with DH, I cant do that, nor do I want to do that.
But I dont have strong relationships with inlaws. And when I see them or hear about them going on and on about the skids, my automatic reaction is just to be like :sick: Moving on.....
I dont want to block them from FB, because really the rare post that is shared with the skids (SS is my friend on FB, girl skids are not) is not enough to do that. Yes it annoys me. Does it affect my life drastically. No.
I want to care about my inlaws. It already sucks I dont have the family I want. It already sucks that I have to deal with a shitty relationship with my husband's kids. I would like to get along with my inlaws.
I guess I am just having a hard time seperating the feelings. Of course I dont think its a me or them thing or anything like that.
Its just hard for me to be like OOOHHH I love ya all so much lets have a great relationship when I keep thinking, they are "with my enemies". Not that extreme, but hopefully you guys understand.
Anyone else feel this way or deal with this? How do you get past it?