Dinner date with SD
DH went to dinner tonight with SD. They were having a good conversation and it was going really well until DH asked about where things stand and moving forward. SD said dinner/lunch dates, shopping, helping out with money, and short visits are okay. She asked about help with her drivers permit next year and maybe help with a car. She then told him absolutely no overnight visits, she will not live with him, and she decided she doesn't want to see any of DH's family, our kids, or me. Lol what a little you know what!
DH was crushed but told her okay well she needs to figure out how to get money, a car, and anything else she needs from her mom because she will not get anymore from him. He called her Aunt and told her to ask BM for money as he will not be paying double anymore. He gave her the insurance card and told her to work it out with SD. The Aunt called him privately and told him no she cannot keep SD but she doesn't want to hurt her feelings. She said she wants her out asap and will try to get her to cooperate. She's not sure what's wrong with SD but that she isn't "normal" ( yeah no kidding).
DH is pissed. I couldn't wait to tell him "I told you so". Yes, it sucks and I feel bad for him but I warned him about her. She is a trash bag like her mother. He let her call the shots all these years and here she is laying out her demands. She only came back because she wanted stuff. DH feels like a fool and rightfully so.