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wicked-stepmother's picture

Is it normal to worry that your spouse blames you for the poor relationship he has with his daughter?


anita...sigh's picture

Yes, absolutely....

however, it doesn't necisarly (ACK, my spelling!!!) a reality. You are probably projecting untp DH. Relax. It was bound to come with or without you.

We all smile in the same language

anita...sigh's picture

Oh, boy,... I shouldn't blog tonight. Migraine.. not good for thinking (or typing for that matter)

We all smile in the same language

Sita Tara's picture

Even after 5 1/2 years, and multiple therapists...

There are times I can sense DH questioning it. Every time I leave for a weekend, and/or he takes her for a weekend somewhere else. She's over the top happy about it and will not bait him.

The minute we're all back together again, BOOM the baiting begins.

Sometimes I wonder myself.

That's when I know it's time to get her back to therapy, and thereby US back to family therapy. Because when I start to wonder is when our marriage is at risk.

Hope you can talk about it with someone, if not with us. I think sometimes talking about it with DH plants the idea and he wasn't even thinking of it before I mentioned it.

"Parental love is unconditional, relationships are reciprocal." ~Zen