DH finaly Sees it!
So my 19 SD moved back to MBs house.....and since we havent seen her for a few mths we wanted to go for a beach day as we have 2 litrle ones so we thought wed have a little visit...My SD msges DH and she wants us All to come to her moms/grammas house....Um what? ...My husband replies that we arent into comimg to that house...even if its just outside by the lake...Like we have to use the bathroom amd we arent fucking going inside Her house..Ever!! Lol...So he says it needs to be a neutral location...so there is a beach few minutes away we can all go to....have bbq picnic and a visit...Reasonable rt?
Well SD re0lies that she can NOT leave her gramma and Grampa alone (grampa has cancer) and she is there 100% of the time...Her mom is away ....So DH is like ...OK...lets do it when your mom comes back so u can leave for couple of hrs...Nope...she still gets upset....makes a post on FB yadda yadda....But the poi t of all this is that DH said "She is basicaly turning INTO her Mom!" ...She creates drama out of a smallest thing....gets upset and spews same shit her mom spewed all of these years...and Im lime "Yes!! YES! You are starting to See it...Finaly!!"....I didnt really say it out loud...but I am glad he is seeing i!! It was a nice little validation that He is now aware of it too...she is a Clone of her mothers