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I Never thought I'd see this day!!

VioletsBlu's picture

19y old SD stormed off to friends house at 3am one morning after her ex bf came over to get his mail...and my DH was "too friendly" with him...this kid lived here for about a year so when he showed up we said Hi...had some small talk...she got PISSED! So she left in the middle of pandemic self isolation and we havent heard from her since except to say she's safe at friends house....So anyways my dh says she msged him and that he'll tell.me what she said when he gets home.from.work...its now been 2 days and he hasnt said anything...So anyways I go look for myself on his FB....Apparently DM picked her up from friends house and told her that she is leaving (bm lives w her lprents at 45y of age lol)...and that SD's granpa has cancer and has 8 mths to live...and that gramma broke her elbow...long story short SD tells DH shes still upset w him...and that She thinks he wants Sons more than daughters(what? )..and that he does things For her but also doesnt( are you fucking kidding me! He lets you Do whatever the F u want!)....aaaanyways....she is moving Back to grandparents house...BM is apparently been going to therapy so "she's Not so Crazy anymore" and she is moving back to Help the grandparents and she also got a Job offer there too....and she wants to get ready to go to college..This is almost 20y old "Childult" who can't even bring up her plates from her room for weeks...let alone Wash them! But anyways!! Fingers Crossed she Does move back there and gets a job and starts school...all she's been doing here is smoke weed...play video games and sleep til 2pm....But Here is soping she finnay Moves Out!!  This hose feels toxic w her here for some reason

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VioletsBlu's picture

I sure will! After the BF moved away she felt that Her room had too.many memories of the ex bf and so she moved her shit into our family Rec room ..the biggest room in the house and claimed That as her room l...and my husband was all "Oh its so good that she recognized she was feeling depressed and changed her environment" (gag me w a Spoon!)....anyways...hopefully she takes most of her stuff w her...and if she leaves Any...its going back into the little room....Im taking our rec room back...It was ridiculous...that room has our storage room off of it...and also access to back yard...anywaaays...I hope she never comes back to live w us....she can come visit....all she brought was drama and toxicity and manipulation...she can go back where she learn that...at her BMs!

JRI's picture

I know exactly what you mean about the drama, toxicity and manipulation!  That describes my SD exactly.  Now I'm going to tell you something to watch out for: when my SD, now 58, moved out as a teenager, i was ecstatic, like you.  She got married and had a baby.  Guess what? She and hubby split and she moved in with BM but couldnt get along so guess where she came with SGK? You guessed it, back here, my DH didn't even discuss with me. Just told her ok.  I felt bad for the baby so went along with it.  She was here for several months, more drama, then moved in with #2.  Flash forward, she had 2 more kids and after her descent into drug use, they split.  You guessed it, back here for10 hellish months

 She is out now but I wanted to alert you that these daddy's girls often boomerang.  Good luck keeping that door closed!

VioletsBlu's picture

Ugh I hear ypu...she keeps him wrapped around her finger by every so often saying "you abandoned me"..."you dont Do enough for me" all the things she learned from BM...so poor guy tries even harder so that doesn't "lose" her..I mean he Allowed her to smoke Weed here!! ...and would even buy her some during covid quarantene!!! Shok ... But no matter what it will NEVER be enough....no matter what he does....It will Never be enough I hope he soon realises how she is manipulating him ...I pray to universe that she doesnt get pregnant!! And if she does...go live w BM!...