And BM thought she was going to get rich... HAHAHAHAHAHA!
BM has ss14 and has had him for 1 whole year now(thank goodness, one down and one to go) and she filed her taxes thinking she is going to get a big child tax benefit cheque every month, she is going to get a grand total of.......$57.00 a month!!!! LMAO!!!!
Dh and I have started a new business and she thinks that we will have to pay CS to her and she will get rich and she will have all the Child tax credit(ctc) and she will make all of this money. the agreement for cs was $250 a month and it was like pulling teeth to get her to pay it but now she thinks that she can take us to court and make us pay big money (she thinks we are making a fortune,she doesn't know that you never make any money for the first 5 years your in business) when our lawyer read the agreement that DH and BM had signed 7 years ago, he asked if she had ever read the thing, because it goes both ways, if Dh has to pay CS it will only be $250 a month, and if she has both boys she will get a CTC of a grant total of $114 a month!!!LOL!! Dumb bitch!!! Now hurry up and take SS12 of my hands so you can have your fortune!! ANd I can be rid of one hell of a headache and I will gladly pay her the $250 a month cs out of my own pocket just to get rid of these kids!!!!
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250 for both kids....heck
250 for both kids....heck that's good! my dh pays double that for his 2!
That of course will change if i have more kids. And if sd doesn't hit college in2 years, that portion will be cut completely.
Yah she probably thinks you are makign money but doesn't realize the first 5 years your in the hole....and by 5 years, she wont be entitled to any of it. Its not her business!
Is the business under your name or both of you? Cause if the business is completelyunder you, any cash from it will never be over in her hands! Never....It becomes your income , where she is entitled to nothign of it.
My dh ex tried by telling her lawyer that since i earn a hefty amoutn that that would increase her CS. LOL...yah right! like i Fd her and those are my kids to pay! i dont think so! My dh lawyer told us that she was taking that route and both lawyers hers and ours told her, the new spouse of your exhusband doesn't count in CS calculations. Her salary is her own and she has no financial responsibility to yoru kids! Apparently the sour look on her face was priceless.
I guess this bm doesn't work?
My FH pays 600$ and PLUS a
My FH pays 600$ and PLUS a month for ONE KID
My dh pays $900 to Wingnut
My dh pays $900 to Wingnut who has their ONE kid, 8 days a month.
"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"
Try having to pay over
Try having to pay over $2K/month for two kids...that's a massive chunk of change going out the door and yet she still comes asking for more (thank goodness he doesn't cave!).
If we didn't have 50/50,
If we didn't have 50/50, we'd be paying close to $2k for one kid. That $900 is for 50/50 court order and it is more like 75/25 with the kid being with us 75% of the time. Plus we pay $2500 a month in alimony.
"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"
Damn! If I could just get
Damn! If I could just get married and divorced, I'd never have to work again with that kind of cash!
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
Seriously, If it weren't for
Seriously, If it weren't for her, I could quit working! Of course, alimony will end, and she'll be screwed because even with her fat cs check, she will never get used to a lifestyle that doesn't include regular trips to Macy's and daily calls to QVC! I am SOOO getting myself a nice present with the alimony money when it ends.
"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"
Preferably a big ol' ring
Preferably a big ol' ring that you can show off
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
LOL - dh bought me a
LOL - dh bought me a fabulous engagement ring. She is mucho jealous about that. Think bigger, like luxury SUV or lavish vacation, which she'll have to know about because she'll have to take the kid!! hahaha!!
"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"
Karma, gotta love it! Did DH
Karma, gotta love it!
Did DH and BM sign a non-modifiable child support clause in the divorce decree? Just wondering if that's why the CS won't change.
Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz
Wingnut actually did get a
Wingnut actually did get a job. She had to in order to get health insurance coverage because when alimony runs out, she won't be able to afford it and if she got "non-group" insurance in the interim, she'd have trouble getting coverage later in life. Plus "non-group" coverage is pretty expensive. She tried to get dh to cover this in the divorce decree, but it didn't happen so she had to get a job. SOOOO she took a second shift job because it was only one mile from her house. Why she would rather work second shift and never see her kid vs. driving 15 minutes for a day shift job is foreign to me, but I guess as long as she's still collecting her big fat cs check she doesn't really care to see the kid. Anyway, even with her big fat cs check and her stupid job, when alimony ceases, she'll be on the line of poverty. Not sure she has a plan and don't really care!
"A pessimist complains about the wind, an optimist counts on the wind changing, a realist adjusts his sails"
Yeah, our BM thought DH was
Yeah, our BM thought DH was going to do everything for her still, even make repairs (free) on her house, etc. She did get more of the equity because DH just wanted out. She is a prime example of someone who didn't think through what would happen after divorce. She is a spendthrift and now can't handle owning a house and paying all the bills. She does work, give her that, but that's all she does. No grocery shopping or housework. EVER. The place looked like a dump six months after DH left and the garage and cellar are always full of discarded crap. That is why he signed off to get rid o the burden. Original plan was co-ownership until SS got out of HS.