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two weeks later, I'm still completely unhappy and we're officially seperated

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Submitted by triponloveb on Sun, 04/08/2007 - 5:22pm

I don't know what to do. I don't think I can continue to live in an unhappy household. I never thought I would actually consider staying because of the love I feel for a child that isn't even mine. I still see ss everyday to help with homework and drive him where he needs to go. I know his dad won't help him and it isn't ss's fault. But then again thats the reason why I'm leaving. I feel especially bad because BM is moving out of state again. SS made a comment that all women are good for is leaving the people who need them.

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Submitted by Riley on Sun, 04/08/2007 - 6:36pm

By "officially separated" you have moved out and have your own place? Any time someone moves out of a relationship, it's going to generate waves of unhappiness, but I'm sure you know that. Just bear it out, those waves will subside, loose their frequency, as time heals the wounds.

It's gallant of you to want to care for the SS, but now that you're separated, doesn't the BD and BM need to pick up the ball and care for their own son? Maybe I'm just confused, so bear with me if I'm misunderstanding.

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Submitted by Pats mom on Sun, 04/08/2007 - 6:48pm

Aww. That's a sad thing the SS said: that all women are good for is leaving the people who need them. Sad I know you care for the SS and it shows. It's a difficult situation you're in. I don't know. Maybe time will tell.