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SD18 just hung up on me

Tiger7's picture

She wants to come over this weekend to do laundry and I said no.  She asked why.  I said cause one I don't trust you and two, because I don't like when people lie to me. 

SD:  I didn't lie to you

Me:  save it.  I've given you plenty of chances and you continue to bite me in the a$$   (I'm raising my voice by now)

SD:   I didn't lie.  Stop yelling at me, you're not my mother

Me:  Damn right I'm not your mother.  I've given you more respect than your mother ever did.

She hung up.  That last one might've been out of line but I am sick of her taking advantage of her dad and me trying to help her.  

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ndc's picture

Wait . . . is this the girl who just lied to everyone about being pregnant?  And she's saying she didn't lie?  That's kind of comical.  Good for you for setting her straight.

Tiger7's picture

Same girl.  Her story to her dad and aunt is that planned parenthood told her she was pregnant so they made the mistake

hereiam's picture

I know we always feel like we owe people an explanation, but the fact is that we do not. She does not need a "why", no is no.

But the fact that she cannot be trusted is certainly a valid reason to not let her in your home, using your resources. Furthmore, she is right, you are not her mother, so she should ask her mother if she can do laundry at HER place.

Tiger7's picture

i don't owe her anything.  and her BM won't accommodate her either.  Although I suspect that she will bond with BM over what i said - hahahaha.  They'll get along for a for a little while so they can hate on me.  Don't even care!

Tiger7's picture

After SO got home last night, he told me she texted him while he was still at work - called me his b*tch a few times.  He said she was really foul mouthed but didn't give me any more specifics so I can imagine.  He's so sick of her behavior too.  Then we went out with another couple for a late dinner and drinks and had a blast! 

Irene H.'s picture

A recent conversation in my house...

Skid: You’re not my mom.

Me: If I were, you wouldn’t act the way you do.

Of course, this was reported to her as me saying she’s a bad parent, which I guess is kind of the truth, maybe a second cousin to the truth...probably the closest thing to the truth they’ve ever said about me, so I guess that’s progress. SMH

WalkOnBy's picture

Over the years, I have had the same kinds of conversations with ASS and BabyVoice....

"you're not my mom" and my various responses have been:

"you are so lucky that I am not - otherwise you would have to grow into a productive person."

"damn right I am not, and thank the Lord for that."

"true but if I was, you would be a much better human than you currently are."

"that's right, so I don't have to do fuck all for you, and don't you forget that."

and the beat goes on....