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Evidence is Piling Up--Looks More and More As Though SD stb 19 has Dropped Out of Community College. . .

thinkthrice's picture

1. Many selfies of SD in mall dressing rooms during the day when she would be attending school
2. Memes eluding to the fact that she "works too much" (possible 30 hour week at a pizzeria)
3. Still no posts about community college, zilch, nada, nothing
4. Invitations to "road trips" from the GIRHIPPO'S ADULT friends being considered
5. Nothing in her status about attending community college

Hmmm.... Waiting until the first week of October to contact the registrar. . .

In the CO, full time employment after age 18 IS an emancipation event AND if said child is working PART TIME when they could be working FULL TIME, "the parties shall re-enter mediation to determine a new support schedule"--only problem is that the Girhippo has REFUSED to enter mediation since the original lopsided BM-centric mediation, so therefore, attorneys are necessary.

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notsobradybunch's picture

I love this...I am able to determine basically everything going on in SD17's life via IG. DH doesn't seem to understand but she's so transparent. I guess thats why she's now blocked me lol...and she doesn't know how that happened...ohhhkayyyy....

thinkthrice's picture

I know both YSS and SD have an Instagram account (and probably OSS) Time to make a faux IG acct as well.

strugglingSM's picture

My SSs are only 11, but already, I can track so many things about them that they post on YouTube. They are totally clueless as to how DH knows these things about them and he hasn't told them it was me. After DH spoke to one of them about it, he refuses to be on any of his friend's "live streams" anymore. I can hear the friend arguing that he can easily block DH because he has to have an account to watch his videos...I feel like commenting "your videos are all public and I can watch them all without logging on to the site", but I don't want to blow my cover. The offending videos have been deleted since DH said something. Said friend, also 11, argues that he doesn't understand why DH cares what SS posts online and also says "what's he going to do when you're 18 and you post something online." At that point, DH will do nothing, because SS will be an adult, but now, SS is still a child and can't just post whatever he wants online, certainly not him making racist and sexually suggestive comments as this friend likes to do. Also, in seven years, when SS is 18, I would hope that people would have tired of posting every little thing online or thinking they can somehow be YouTube or IG celebrities.

strugglingSM's picture

Well, they've already gotten themselves into trouble posting copyrighted material in their videos...this one friend thinks he knows everything and he doesn't.

This is the same friend who convinced SS when he was 9 to hit himself in the face and tell his teacher someone else did it. Too bad, they decided to do this on the bus where there are video cameras. BM went screeching in to the principal's office threatening to sue because "someone hurt my child." Then the principal showed her the video of her own child hurting himself and then lying to frame another child.

This "friend" doesn't even go to the same school as SS anymore, so it would have been a perfect opportunity to remove a bad influence from SS's life, but of course, BM wants to be in the family's good graces because they live in a rich neighborhood, so she goes out of her way to let SS hang out with this boy.

Dontfeedthetrolls's picture

Don't let her refuse. It clearly states that they are to do mediation and its worth it to get the lawyer involved if she refuses to behave. Keep it simple.

"We have proof that SD isn't enrolled. She's posting that she work's X hours. BM refuses to go to mediation. We want to go to court." Don't play around.

thinkthrice's picture

she refuses ALL correspondence from us UNLESS it is from attorneys. It has been this way for well over a decade. the last thing she ever said to us was "no matter what it is about you'll need to talk to my attorney"

Dontfeedthetrolls's picture

Then do it. Don't wait. Let her pay the extra cost to get nothing. Have the lawyer send one official request for mediation and when she refuses go striaght to court. Every month you let her play this game only cost your DH.

thinkthrice's picture

Oh believe me I'll be on it. We are just giving the "benefit of the doubt" by waiting for one month before re-contacting the registrar. I noticed she recently took down her "working at Podunk Pizzeria" on her FB site.

Of course there's always social engineering. I can call up Podunk Pizzeria as an "HR Rep" and confirm her employment.