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Submitted by they8ntmine on Sun, 10/17/2010 - 8:51am

So FDH finally went to the skids school and got their info so he could see their grades and stuff online as that's how the schools around here do it, they don't mail stuff out anymore. I've been on his *ss to go forever and his response was well according to the papers she's supposed to do it. And my response is well she hasn't done it yet what makes you think she's going to wake up one of these days and start following the CO.

I can't wait to see how they actually are doing in school and I'm curious how many days of school both skids have missed. According to SD fB she missed school the other day because she felt like staying home with BM. BM just had some sort of procedure done the day before. IMO I don't think SD should have missed school because of this.

well I guess we'll know the truth soon....

Never finished why I was irritated at BM, sorry ADD is bad (look there goes the squirrel)

So we also found out she had her cable/internet reinstalled. Yet as far as we no they still have no gas (think heat) and winter is quickly approaching. So she just irritates me, her priorities are all screwed up. She lets the skids stay home from school for any reason the last time was cuz everyone woke up late. I'm sorry your a SAHM theres no reason to miss school and if even BM can't wake up on time then y'all go late.

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Nette5's picture

Submitted by Nette5 on Sun, 10/17/2010 - 10:01am

We always had to go get school information ourselves, even though it was in the decree that BM supply it. We also made sure that the school had a current copy of the CO so there was NO question what we were allowed. We never knew where SS went for medical, dental, any of that.

Now with the roles reversed and we are custodial, we have made sure she has all the phone numbers and addresses she needs to contact whatever medical or school information she wants. We also made sure that BM had her code to access the online school information at HER leisure. Not on my head after I pass the info on... hehe

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Submitted by RaeRae on Sun, 10/17/2010 - 2:34pm

Our decree states that we are to notify BM (or she notify us) of any issues at school or Dr appointments but it's up to the other parent to seek out information from the source first before asking custodial parent. So when kids go to see the doc, or have an issue at school, I just shoot off a quick email saying "skid went to doc today" and leave it to her to call the doc. As long as she insists on being a bitch, I will not do one letter more than our court order states for us to do. I've extended my hand in the past, and she took advantage of me. Won't happen again.