sad, alone, and dont know what to do
So today i was logged onto my b/fs yahoo messenger by accident and realized that his ex has beed emailing him all day. I have no idea what they're talking about because i cant get into his email. I just saw the message that pops up evertytime he gets an email. I asked him about and he said they're just talking about the girls and her broken rib...
I just get so upset when they talk. Its a totally differnt expirence for me dealing with this women all the time. Its not like b/f g/f stuff where when you break up you never talk to them again or when your married and dont have kids. They did have kids so they have to keep in contact in reguards to them. But she calls all the time and emails him constantly. Its like they're not even sepearted. I dont really know how im suppose to feel about it. I dont know what to say to him without him getting mad. I just get super jealous and i dont know how keep my feelings to myself.
Also, I'm trying to detach myself from the girls. When my b/f leaves for iraq i will have no contact with the girls at all for 18 months or longer. And its not fair for me or the girls to suffer while hes away. We get the girls every wed night and one weekend out of the month and i think during these times when they're around i will remove myself from the situation. I dont know if this is the best approch but if anyone knows of anything i can do that seems better...please let me know.