alone with your kids mean having your BF & his three kids come down.

On Thursday the boys told us that they had asked their mom to not have her BF & his three kids come down or go there for the weekend , that they had asked for a weekend alone with her. Because she was originally supposed to work that Saturday she had asked if we would tae the kids, she then said she didn't need us to that she could work from home. DH specifically asked if BF & kids were coming down & she said no. Liar! Yesterday boys called their dad..( See she has decieded that if their is a holiday & kids don't have school we don't get them for our 2 hrs in the afternoon. Afterall we are only babysitters you know. )

Any ways it turns out BF & kids came down Friday & stayed over went home Saturday & then BF came back Sunday & was still there last night. Oh & the Monday she took of to be with kids... well her BF wanted to go to her work & meet her coworkers so that is where the kids got to go yesterday.

WTF! Does that sound like spending a weekend alone with your kids when they specifically tell you they need time alone with just you?

Also today is oldest SS's ortho appt. DH never got a time out of her so she was pretty pissed when he called her to find out & make sure that this was only to make sure the 1 tooth they pulled was in enough to start. DH told her NOT to make the consult appt where we get the info on the stages & financial info w/o checking with him because it needs to be convenient for all of us not just her. I am sure she loved that. Here's my thought, if you want to do it all your way then pay for it yourself. If you expect us & our insurance to pay for anything you need to follow their rules & include us in the decision making. If you want to make all your own decisions then get out your checkbook! Sorry, I just know this one is going to be a battle.

I told DH if she screws this up we will make our own appt with ortho & get the info & make sure that they bill us our portion seperately. I am not paying her or trusting her on this. After she screwed up on daycare he told her he will no longer blindly turn over money w/o concret proof we owe it.

Sorry, I get sick of being treated like she is superior & watching her treat my DH & I like we are idiots. I hate that the kids ask her for time & end up having to share. I hate watching my DH miss his kids & loosing a day with them & then having the youngest one playing a vidoe game when takling to his dad & then him asking dad if he wants to talk to mommy's BF.

Thanks for letting me complain, again.