Basically after 2 years and whole catalogue of rubbish he says he can't live like this and is leaving me tomorrow!
This dude works 5 nights a week and has ss the other 2 so we get zero time together. Tonight I was annoyed because my kids are in bed and he's chosen to sit chatting with SS while I come to bed alone again on his night off.
Am I jealous? Damn right I am I get no attention from my partner of course it hurts me and I am lonely. I feel used as a cook maid and cleaner and have to out up with his toxic ex and her fun and games and the SS being a rude awful boy searching my drawers for cans of soda and if ignoring every request I make.
Oh does not lift a finger and has never been expected to take on parenting my 3 kids but wants to set rules and regulations but won't make an effort to build relationships with the kids while I make daily calls with him to his son and make tons of effort yes I feel like it's unfair and unbalanced.
He says he's leaving and my brain says good go then if that's the level.of gratitude and respect.
Heart hurts and need some hand holding. I have no one to turn to to get a bit of emotional support.