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So, OH might be Grandad at the same time as a new dad!

stressedstep's picture

We dont see SS's and thats totally fine by me....I totally dislike SS17 and Im not ashamed to admit it, because of what he has said and done...SS19 annoys the proverbial sh*t of me with his childish and lazy ass attitude......

Anyway, OH had a text 2 weeks ago from SS19, saying he had a new GF...she had 2 young kids (oOooOOooo I hope they cause him "step-hell"!!!) and is 24 yo, he said that he basically lives with her now and has done for the previous 6 weeks, she cooks for him etc....the GF has also apparently asked SS19 to have a child with her, and apoparently SS19 said no way, only known you 6 weeks.....2 things.....firstly, it was only 4 weeks prior to that text that BM told us that "poor old SS19 was on his ar*e with no food or electricity in his flat"....well, SS19 wasnt living at his flat so why would that matter!???? (Ill come back to this!)...and secondly a baby at 19!? Sh*t you cant even look after yourself let alone a kid!! Anyway, that was that until 2 days ago....

OH bumped into SS19, and apparently said GF has again asked for another child with SS19......again he has apparently refused.....now, OH asked if SS19 was "covering up" and SS19 said....wait for it......"well I dont need to cos she going on the pill"......ah ha....why is she going on the pill when she is that eager to have a child with you!? OH reminded SS19 of this and he is that dense it still took him a few minutes to sink in.....so OH will become a dad to a baby in February, and possibly and grandad a few months after!! Well, dont be looking at me and my house to babysit...you can fu*k right off!!

Re the food and electric....SS17 is living at SS19's flat....he knows full well OH wont give him anything after whats happened, so BM and SS17 cooked it that they would use SS19 as the excuse...so now they want OH AND me to fund SS19's flat to feed SS17 and OH's SS21......luckily it hasnt happened that way, and OH said that "SS19 is hungry, he comes here and thats that"......lol

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stressedstep's picture

I was gobsmacked when OH told me!! :jawdrop:

I can see it now "Daaaadddd Ive got no nappies for baba, can I pinch some of my baby brothers?".....

Worst is, SS17's GF, who he has been with for some years, had an abortion about 18 months to 2 years ago, and she has been going round telling some of her mates that her and SS17 are "trying" for a child.....now I dont take this as gospel as she is a petty jealous little c*w, and is probably trying to provoke a reaction from BM and OH.....but thats the kind of kids OH has got.....and no matter what he has said and done, he cant seem to get this sh*ty attitude out of them....

Ljcapp1's picture

Wow! Not sure how things work where you are but she sounds like she's gearing up to be a full time mom with no intentions of working again. I.e. Child support for 3 kids and she's set!