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SS19...the saga continues......with a revelation about the BM....

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So SS19 STILL dossing on the sofa......OH has been keeping him busy with tasks at home and tasks to complete outside the home.....Outside; he has completed his medical form to join the army....and he has sorted his appointments for the social (next week it starts). I believe SS19 has as he told me he had to sign on every day.....this is because he has no fixed address...his housing should be sorted over the next week.....Im sending him down to Council tomorrow to chase the matter anyway....Inside jobs; OH made him paint the nursery whilst he worked (he has been on nights for a while) and to paint the bunk beds ready to be built....which he finished yesterday....he has ruined the carpet in the nursery in the process, which didnt go down well at all...but girls SOOOOOOO excited about the new beds and the fact the room now needs to be changed round (bunk beds bigger than we thought!)

Sunday evening (Thursday today) SS19 was chatting away to OH whilst starting the Bunk Bed painting....all sorts of subjects, they had a laugh too.....OH normally goes to see mate on Sunday evenings, but this particular Sunday he has said he wasnt going......anyway, next thing I know, OH is washed, changed and getting ready to go out and is totally fuming......turns out SS19 told OH something will probably be happening that actually shouldnt be.....BM has apparently reported OPH to the CSA claiming he owes her money :jawdrop:

Im not too concerned, as we have bank statements to prove otherwise, and clothing, shoes etc receipts to show we have paid out on top too, but the fact that she has LIED to the CSA and that they may now come after OH is something we didnt expect to happen......apparently, BMs partner is not happy as there isnt enough money coming into the house (he doesnt work, BM does).....

We shall see what happens.....