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PRICELESS!! DEVELOPMENTS TO - "SS19...Im disengaging and forcing the move out"...

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OH just called me, said he had had enough and that he was done....

I asked what happened....he said he spoke to SS19 about whats gone on and what BM has said.....so SS19 feeling like the "crap dad" routine isnt working decided to use MY UNBORN BABY TO MAKE HIS DAD FEEL GUILTY INSTEAD!!!!!!!!!! :jawdrop:

SS19....Im disengaging and WILL force him to move out...

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So, SS19 is STILL dossing on my sofa....he literally has nowhere else to go....so OH has told him he needs to get his social sorted and a job...I text OH on Friday gone and said that a little cafe by my works (one I use everyday, I know the owners!) were asking for staff, just a delivery lad, but its a paid job....I told OH, and said that SS19 stood a really good chance (80% guarantee) of getting the job...I told the owner that I would send SS19 up on the Saturday, which he was chuffed about as they desperate!

SS19...the saga continues......with a revelation about the BM....

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So SS19 STILL dossing on the sofa......OH has been keeping him busy with tasks at home and tasks to complete outside the home.....Outside; he has completed his medical form to join the army....and he has sorted his appointments for the social (next week it starts).

not happy....another two weeks of SS19 apparently....

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two more fucking weeks.....apparently the local council is over run with little shits like him and it can take up to two weeks to find a hostel place......told OH he would have to stop at BMs to be told, she won't have him....my reply was well he has two parents so tough....but no, the little lazy dumb idiot smelly shit is on my sofa yet again cos daddy can't possibly say no son, you need to find somewhere else this week.....

not happy...., fuming

Just and update and addition....SS19 has been entrusted to sort his housing out...

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I spoke with SS19 last night, gathered more info regarding his eviction. It is based on his ignorance and lack of maturity and knowledge (he is a very immature 19 and does have dyslexia). He said he "didnt know" half the stuff I was telling him, told him thats what happens when you swan off for 3 and 4 months at a time with no contact. After speaking with him and OH, neither seemed impressed when I told them the flat could have been saved....

SS19 has revealed whats happened...cos I asked and proceeded to reprimand him too!!

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SS19 was apparently VERY busy yesterday....he has done his claim for social, and put his name down for the Army and TA.....OH was appeased....but I wasnt and still had tasks I wanted sorted out...so my plan today was to have him out the house at 7am again, and send him to local Council to sort out emergency shelter and more permanent lodgings.......however, as Im not much closer to knowing whats going on in my own home (OH reluctant to discuss the ins and outs, as he doesnt want the stress put on me at all)....I outright asked SS19 this morning what the hell was going on.

SS19....AFTER HIS FIRST DAY STILL MANAGES TO F*CK UP!!

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GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

Yesterday morning, OH left SS19 OHs own house keys so he get sorted what he needed too...OH leaves for work at 6am and I leave with my BD7 at 7am.....OHs last words to SS19 - DO NOT LOSE THOSE KEYS.....MY last words to SS19...DO NOT LOSE THE KEYS......

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