I refuse to clothe the SD6!
So OH pays maintenance to BM for SD6. Yet BM doesnt buy jack s**t for SD6, she expects OH to do this on top of what he pays. BM doesnt see the issue, as I work.......yup, she thinks I should pay toward HER kids.
Well, I used to buy clothes and shoes and such for SD6, but only to be kept at my home. SD6 stops at ours on night then with MIL the next night on weekends. SD6 would wear the clothes we bought to MIL, but I kinda stopped that some time ago, cos MIL was sending SD6 home to BM in the clothes I had paid for.
Anyway, for the last few months now, Ive refused to buy anything for SD6. She has very minimal clothing at mine now. We are due to go away in May for a week, and I have already started buying bits for BD6 ready for the holiday. So, am I wrong to not buy for SD6? I mean, its not my responsibility is it??
OH and me have separate accounts. He transfer money each week for house bills only, after that his money is his and mine is mine, so it should be OH that buys for HIS daughter whislt I continue to be for MY daughter?
Or, am I being selfish?????