What is YOUR Christmas wish, Step-wise?
My Christmas Wish stepwise, is that BM lets DH take full custody of their son, and he lives with us permanently. He transfers schools, and sees BM every other weekend, with her driving half way to pick up her son and to drop him off with DH.
Also she would get NO MORE child support for him, and we wouldn't ask her for any. And the cherry on top? Letting me adopt my SS so she's no longer such an influence in his life.
It's a wish that will never ever come true, but at least I can dream about it.
Merry Christmas to all!