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stepmom2011's picture

So I decided that I was tired of my husband walking out the door each night from my apartment to our home. I decided that I wanted to move back to MY home. So I did. SD15 is in hiding in her room and I have yet to see her. The funny thing is I could care less! It's only a matter of time. She is texting DH as to where I am in the house so she can avoid me! It's comical! I just shake my head and tell him that she is only 15 and the brain doesn't completely develop till the age of 21.

SD15 is, at this very moment, pleading her case with DH about online high school. I hear "PPPPLLLEEEEEEAAASSSSSSEEEEEEEEE!" over and over and over. It's 1:30am! Again, DH and I decided against it. He said he needs the break from her as much as I do those precious hours she is in school! I have missed DH so much! Sleeping in his arms at night makes all the BS of the situation worth it. DH is clear on what I will do given violence or property damage is concerned. So is SD15. I think she is hiding from the reality of what she did. When she sees me, her anger will flare up. DH told me to be prepared because she will probably turn around and go the other way. I told him I would just smile at her like I would a stranger in the streets.

In the meantime... DH and I are doing whatever we want, whenever we want with no worries over what skids are doing. I like it. I really don't care anymore. Both my skids will have everything they need. I will never deny them my help if they would need it, but after everything that has happened I am going to continue to disengage.

Praying friends... keep praying. I am in touch with my inner "bitch" right now, not worrying about anything... just doing what I want to do. The house is so cluttered (DH is so disorganized). It will take me a while to clear the clutter and rearrange furniture before I will be completely settled in. Told DH that I am going to make this house my own! Time to redo it all! I am very happy right now. When I realized that I don't need to care about SD15's feelings anymore... I FELT FREE!

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unbelieveable's picture

Wink atta girl Don't let yourself fall back into that situation again...I am currently doing the same!

FML's picture

Good! Keep being a bitch... Stand your ground and be an adult! She will fuck up soon and then her ass will be where it belongs. It is so crazy that these fucking kids are given this much leeway to rule adults lives. Should have never happened. Give them enough rope, they will hang themselves.

Jsmom's picture

Life does get better, when you take back your power from these kids....Make the house yours and it will help as well. I completely remodeled. House looks nothing like it did when the ex lived here.